Feeling Of The Month - Fear -

Fear is one of those feelings that will always be around, it constantly challenges us and because of it, we are always learning and growing.

It's so easy to fall into a fear's state of mind. It’s so easy to let fear interfere with everything that happens in our lives.

Now, overcoming it is one of the best things we can experience.

Out of fear we built walls to protect us from situations, people… We think that by isolating ourselves we are safer, and it's not completely wrong but, part of the consequences are all the things you start missing about life. So what is riskier? A life lived with control inside of your comfort zone or a life full of challenges, adventures and experiences?. Fear will always give you 2 choices, you can walk away or face whatever it is. It's up to you to make a choice.

Just because something went wrong it doesn’t mean you have to close yourself to live the same things under different circumstances. Fear will always act as a shield that won't let you live to the fullest, so, lower those walls, let people in, enjoy life, remember that everything happens for a reason and what is meant to be, will be! Work hard but always following your dreams and doing what YOU want. The goal here is for you to be happy, because when you are happy everything flows naturally, when you are happy you are in harmony with yourself.

We usually take fear as something completely negative but it really depends on how you look at it and how you act when is there. Fear can be a great motivator to do the things you want to do. How boring will be a life without fears! Fear is like fuel that keeps you moving. Every time you face your fears you set yourself free, and it's not that you become fearless but you realize that the limits you thought you had, where there because you created them.

People want to succeed, find love, live to the fullest, but you often see how scare they are of failing, so they stop trying, they are so scared of getting hurt that they close their hearts so no one can enter, suddenly, they prefer to stay in their comfort zones. Thing is, if you stop trying, you already failed; if you close your heart, you won’t find any love; if you live in your comfort zone, you can’t live to the fullest. The experiences we live makes us who we are, we grow and learn with them, always for the best.

Our happiness depends on us, it doesn't rely in others or in making someone else happy. We have in life what we are willing to fight and work for. Limitations are lines we create out of fear, and no one but us have the power to put them down and do things anyway.